My husband and I were told that we have a responsibility to understand how our bodies work.

My doctor told us that some women have got married but they never knew what to expect about how their menstrual cycle works. My husband has not been afraid to examine me and to make sure that everything is alright. I have a very good husband. Even when I became pregnant for the first time, he knew I was pregnant before I did. I am learning how to deal with everything in lovemaking, including foreplay. For that reason, I have gone into nursing. I want to seek total gratification from my husband. If my husband is cheating, it would not be because I did not endeavour to satisfy him.

I hope I have not been saying anything wrong or rude to you. I just want to be real all the time. One day I asked my husband what is his favourite position. He told me that I should ask him that question one year from that day's date. So I have lots of things to learn.

I can't tell you what your husband would enjoy or what he enjoys. He has not told you.

But I am sure that he knows what he knows. Perhaps he prefers to have you learn on your own. Buy some good books; there are some Christian writers who have written good books and you may learn from them.